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dc 03/12/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional


For the word of God is alive and powerful. It is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword, cutting between soul and spirit, between joint and marrow. It exposes our innermost thoughts and desires.  Nothing in all creation is hidden from God. Everything is naked and exposed before his eyes, and he is the one to whom we are accountable.
 
HEBREWS 4:12-13 NLT
 
For much of my life I saw the Bible as a very daunting book, a very large, very daunting book. How do you crack it open and have it mean anything? I was always amazed by people who referred to it as the Living Word/as life-changing. How? Before I gave my life to Him, this concept made little or no sense to me. I would meet people who referred to themselves as born again or saved or just Christians who knew that I was not and would direct me to a certain passage or entire book of the Bible. One friend instructed me to read 1 John. "If you read 1 John, you will get it. You will understand."
 
I read 1 John. I didn't get it. I didn't understand.
 
I am not saying that the word of God is not the Living Word, I am in fact saying just the opposite. As a Christian who now "gets it" I am still very aware of what it is to not get it. (It wasn't that long ago for me.) We need to be ready to walk alongside those who are seeking or those that we think may be seeking. Just pointing to the book or specific passage may not be enough. Will you be there afterwards to answer questions? To listen to doubts? Even as believers we need to be Bible teachers to one another/for one another. Not dyed in the wool quote it with my eyes closed and one arm tied behind my back perfect but imperfect and seeking/open and willing to drink in and then share the power of His Living Word. His Word is sharper than the sharpest two-edged sword . As brothers in Christ we should be cracking it open together even when it some times feels more like stumbling through together. I believe that often men do not study the Bible or dare to lead a group and teach because they are concerned they may not get it and if they step out and teach they risk getting it wrong. This is the risk we have to take. Be in His Word. Be open and ready to receive Him.
 
-K
 
 
 
dc 03/11/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional


I talk about it a lot here, to the point of feeling like a broken record but.... Does this expression even mean anything to half the population anymore? Let me re-phrase. Perhaps I talk about it so much that I now feel like a scratched CD or a jammed MP3 player........
 
Well let's forget the expressions and get to the heart of the matter. I did it again.....all-right I'll stop.
 
What do I talk a lot about here? Isolation as a killer, especially for men. Ever take a close look at who you confide in? Or who you don't? Ever discover that you do not truly have a man or a group of men that you can bounce things off of, especially in relation to your walk with God (and theirs)? Ever wonder why that is?
 
I believe that this is often due to judgment (or maybe better said...a judging nature). I believe that Christian men who are generally kind and forgiving when it comes to a variety of people and circumstances in their life can be incredibly judgmental when it comes to which men they "let in" and why. 
 
So here are two questions that were spinning in my head on the way to work yesterday so much so that I scrambled around for a pen and a scrap of paper to write them down (while driving).
 
Have you ever looked at another man, sized him up and judged Him?
 
Have you ever looked at another man, sized him up and judged yourself?
 
Answers of yes to both these questions could lead us to isolate, to decide that no one is trustworthy or good enough to go deeper with or that we are not trustworthy or good enough to go deeper with.
 
K
 
  
 
dc o3/10/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional

No servant can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money."
LUKE 16:13 NIV

Am still thinking about The Treasure of the Sierra Madre and found myself focusing on the friendship between the Bogart and Holt characters depicted. Early in the film, they are working hard and do not like the jobs they have but find camaraderie in this. It becomes the basis of their friendship. They have a common goal: to work less, to earn more. They begin to trust each other over time. The idea of going to Mexico in search of gold is initially seen as a partnership. They are joined by a third man (played by Walter Huston) and set off to make their fortune. It comes pretty quickly to them but just as quickly they distrust one another in an attempt to hold onto their portion of the gold. The friendship between the Bogart and Holt characters fades quickly and the film ends with the murder of Bogart.

In remembering the film I was struck by the overwhelming paranoia brought on by the drive to keep their share of the gold at all costs. This fear/ this paranoia destroyed their friendship, one that could very well have been a sustaining one for both of these men.

Ever push another man away to protect yourself financially/emotionally/to protect your status? Ever find yourself distrusting another man to the point of distancing yourself from him? Have you also ever found that your "instinct" about another man was wrong? If so, did you swallow your pride and confess this to another man?

I was wrong about you. I have been harboring feelings of resentment. I was wrong.

What is the worst thing that could happen?

 

K

 
dc 03/07/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional


No servant can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money."
LUKE 16:13 NIV

Ever see the old black and white classic The Treasure of the Sierra Madre (1948) starring Humphrey Bogart? John Huston, who went on to make The African Queen, The Man Who Would Be King and Prizzi's Honor, among others, directed. If you have not seen this picture it is worth the time. It is a classic portrait of the destructive power of greed.

The Netflix synopsis summarizes the film in the following way:
Three poverty-stricken dreamers (Walter Huston, Humphrey Bogart and Tim Holt)head to the mountains south of the border in search of gold. Their fortune and friendship grow at first, but soon, paranoia and greed begin to take over, endangering all that they've gained.

This is an accurate description. The Bogart and Holt characters develop a friendship as they labor in dead end jobs. They are depicted as constantly envying those who have "made it". They meet up with the Walter Huston character, a man who is more world-wise than he initially seems and together they decide to pan for gold in Mexico. They do strike it rich but their insatiable hunger for more before they even leave the mountains they found the gold in leads to one of them being murdered and all of their newfound riches lost forever all due to greed.
In the world of this film, which is also the one we live in though it was made sixty years ago, God as well as "honest work" is for suckers. There is always an easier way to have money than just making a living. The allure of easy money and ultimately more and more money is a trap of course. Once you have attained a certain level of money and status you are constantly focused on not losing that money and status. It strikes me that only God at the center of one's life would eliminate the reflex of glancing behind you to see who is getting ready to overtake or staring with envy ahead towards those who have wealth beyond yours. None of us are immune to this regardless of our annual income/our net worth.

Sit down one day and take an honest look at how you spend your money or how you have spent your money at different times in your life. If you balance your checkbook the old fashioned way (pencil and paper) you can see in black and white when you tithed and gave beyond your tithe and when you did not. Don't be surprised if blessings are more evident, even in retrospect, during these times. One cannot be the servant of two masters. Not for very long anyway.

 
dc 03/06/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional


As far as I am concerned, God turned into good what you meant for evil. He brought me to the high position I have today so I could save the lives of many people.
GENESIS 50:20 NLT

Gary Malyjurek facilitates a group for men in the midst of or at great risk of separating from their wives. He has been receiving DC daily along with the rest of us for a while.This group is housed at Saddleback Church in California. Gary also sends out a daily encouragement for the men of this group. Gary and his wife were separated for a period of time. Below is Gary's response to yesterday's DC:
 
My "evil" was when Leslie and I separated.  Our marriage was completely dead and I saw no way that anything good could rise out of our separation.  Fast
forward and what now exists is the best marriage I could have hoped for since reconciling about two years ago.  The miracle God provided provoked me to work with men in the Separated Men's Group to provide hope in the Lord.  He turned extreme pain into a wonderful blessing with my wife, and the desire to help others.
 
Gary thought his marriage was over and that nothing could revive it. He put his trust in the Lord and his marriage was healed. I imagine that Gary believed that the very last thing that God had in store for him was leading a group for separated men. This is a true example of how God uses everything in our lives/how we are shaped by all that happens in our lives.
 
 
The verse below is Bob Davis's "favorite" and I am beginning to understand why..... 
 
While Jeremiah was still confined in the courtyard of the guard, the word of the LORD came to him a second time:  "This is what the LORD says, he who made the earth, the LORD who formed it and established it—the LORD is his name:  'Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.'
 
JEREMIAH 33:1-3 NIV
 
-K
 
dc 03/05/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional


As far as I am concerned, God turned into good what you meant for evil. He brought me to the high position I have today so I could save the lives of many people.
 
GENESIS 50:20 NLT
 
Joseph's words. Joseph who was wrongfully accused of rape and went to prison for it, was despised by his brothers who were so jealous of him that they left him in a pit to die. In all this/despite all this he was able to give thanks to God. How often do you thank God for attacks to your character, false accusations, attempts on your life, persecution?
 
 
K
 
dc 03/04/08 E-mail
Daily Courage Devotional


So the wall was completed on the twenty-fifth of the month Elul, in fifty two days. When all our enemies heard of it, and all the nations surrounding us saw it, they lost their confidence; for they recognized that this work had been accomplished with the help of our God.
 
NEHEMIAH 6:15-16
 
It is important to note that nowhere in the Book of Nehemiah are we led to believe that he was famous for his wall building or building of any kind. Nehemiah prayed to God from a broken heart for the broken,exposed city of Jerusalem and responded in obedience by vowing to rebuild the wall that once surrounded the city. This is what makes the feat itself so amazing. God built the wall. God used Nehemiah along with many other ordinary men who were not necessarily trained laborers but truly became and were the workers that God sent. I have a friend who when I am focused on increasing the number of men at Calvary who teach classes/lead small groups for men always vows to pray for God to send more workers. I believe that God answered a similar prayer uttered by Nehemiah.
 
Do "your enemies", in the broadest sense of the word, sense God in the details of your acts of obedience to Him?
 
K
 
 
 
 
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